11 ways to make a guy fall in love with you

Summer love is in the air -- so are some fantastic tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! Whenever the weather starts getting warmer, we all start wishing we had a special someone to spend time with. Sometimes, it can be tricky to find - and get! - that great guy you've been wishing for. So, here are my top 11 tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! It's all about confidence, being yourself and really putting yourself out there!

1. BE YOURSELF

All of my tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you surround being yourself. If you're fake, it doesn't matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won't really be in love with the real you. So, my first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a #guy likes me for me. After all, you would hate to fall in love with a guy that isn't being himself right?

2. OPTIMIZE YOUR APPEARANCE

Whenever I'm trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn't mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic #hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself #look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean #bright smile, and a spritz of light perfume. I do this for myself, so I can be confident in who I am.

3. LISTEN

Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a #guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the #time. If he is attune to #women, he will ask you questions too and it'll develop into a nice little back and forth conversation!

4. LAUGH A LOT

Having a sense of humor is really important when you are trying to attract a guy. Laughing at his jokes and even knowing how to take a joke can really make a #guy feel like he knows a girl instantly! If you've got a #crush, laugh it up a little with him and see how he responds!

5. BE WITTY

Everyone has a bit of charisma to them and a witty side, why not show that? I know it can be difficult sometimes, if you are around your #crush, but don't get too tongue-tied and just go for it! Remember when I said that a #guy likes a girl with a sense of humor? Show that side of yourself to him and be confident in who you are!

6. INITIATE PHYSICAL CONTACT

Guys love physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy. So, when I'm trying to attract a guy's attention, I will #look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I'm laughing at a joke, or I'll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I'll touch his hand while I'm explaining something.

7. BRING HIM A TREAT

The old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his#stomach isn't just an old saying for no reason- it's totally true! I always bake a little treat for a guy when I'm trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I just surprise him with it on a random day. When my ex and I were first dating, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game. He just loved it!

8. GIVE HIM FREEDOM

When a guy's trying to determine if you're girlfriend material, he will test you a #little bit. My advice at this point is to give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more. In my experience, if any #guy ever got the impression that I'd try to tie him down, he'd be gone lightning fast. So, let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare #time.

9. MAKE EYE CONTACT

Staring deeply into someone's eyes quickly ramps up the intensity of the connection between two #people. So, if I'm trying to get a guy to fall in love with me, I stare deeply into his #eyes while we're talking. Now, don't #look too long, or you'll appear to be a stalker... but you definitely want extended #eye contact. Remember the scenes in Twilight where all the sexual tension developed between Edward and Bella just based on eye contact? That's what I'm talking about.

10. DON'T APPEAR DESPERATE

Guys want someone that is confident and someone that is secure in themselves. Even if you aren't confident, don't worry, there are tons of ways to build it. Start small and just go from there. I know not appearing desperate is hard, but if you appear to have it all together and even play hard to#guy? Your #crush will like you even more!

11. BE SUPPORTIVE OF HIS INTERESTS

Guys love it when a girl takes an interest in what he likes to do. Even if you don't necessarily like what he is into (like video games or sports!), just give it a try -- that way you can have some common ground. Guys, that also means that you'll have to take an interest in your girl's interests too! A#relationship is a two way street.

Courtesy- Allwomenstalk

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